Exactly. I’m used to women telling me what they were looking for during the first few dates–and asking me the same. If they don’t, I assume they’re just looking to date for dating’s sake, for the social validation of having a man and/or for the social permission to have casual sex, because that has been my experience.

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Maargen says:
August 10, 2011 at 5:15 pm
I’m not sure how this dating thing works, so this is a genuine question – not rhetorical.

Trouble, when you say “Why would you wait 4 months to have the talk about exclusivity, if that’s what you’re looking for?”

and “I have usually done it by date 2-3, and way before sleeping together”

Is it really a good thing to mention exclusivity within 2-3 dates? Knowing that what someone is ultimately looking for is an exclusive relationship doesn’t mean that they know within 2-3 dates that they’ve found the right person for that. In saying you want an exclusive relationship, isn’t there a danger that the person you’re speaking to will assume that you mean with him?



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