You’re attracted to what you’re attracted to, and as a college-educated immigrant, you might actually have more in common with a white woman than a non-white woman, depending on where you lived since moving here. So I’m not going to beat up on you for self-loathing. My advice is essentially the same as to the last OP: when there’s something about you and/or the woman you seek that significantly limits your dating options, it’s going to take you longer to find someone. You can either settle and give up on the thing that limits you or realize that it takes more time and accept that you will be single longer. Or, you can move, but I said that already.

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Craig says:
August 5, 2011 at 11:40 am
“You’re attracted to what you’re attracted to, and as a college-educated immigrant, you might actually have more in common with a white woman than a non-white woman…”

Please explain what you’re implying with that statement. Why would being a college-educated immigrant mean one has more in common with a white woman than a non-white woman?

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