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Did you ask her if she had kids? Did her profile state that she didn’t have children?
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chuckrock Says:
August 24th, 2011 at 11:43 am
This was a different type of situation than I am used to, and came earlier on in my entering back into the dating world. I had responded to her craigslist ad – she is the only one I have done this with. So she didn’t say anything about kids in her ad. we conversed over email for well over a month before meeting, mainly because we were both weary about meeting someone from craigslist. The topic of kids did come up, but in rereading the emails after the fact, I did not come out and ask that specific question.
she is also the one woman I had first date sex with. we had unbelievable chemistry in bed and quite frankly she is the best lover I have had to this point. she basically hid the fact that she had kids from because she knew it was a deal breaker for me and thought since the sex was so good (she told me this afterwards -so it wasn’t just in my mind) that i wouldn’t want to give that up and eventually be ok with it. I did try for a couple of more dates, but in the end i couldn’t get over what i felt was a lie….even more than the kids thing.
Being An Emotional Man Does Not Equal “Talking About Your Feelings”
The Question You Need To Ask Yourself While You’re Dating
The First Rule of Proposing: Don’t Ask A Question You Don’t Know The Answer To
Stone Soup: The Art Of Building Attraction Through Scaffolding
Did you ask her if she had kids? Did her profile state that she didn’t have children?
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chuckrock Says:
August 24th, 2011 at 11:43 am
This was a different type of situation than I am used to, and came earlier on in my entering back into the dating world. I had responded to her craigslist ad – she is the only one I have done this with. So she didn’t say anything about kids in her ad. we conversed over email for well over a month before meeting, mainly because we were both weary about meeting someone from craigslist. The topic of kids did come up, but in rereading the emails after the fact, I did not come out and ask that specific question.
she is also the one woman I had first date sex with. we had unbelievable chemistry in bed and quite frankly she is the best lover I have had to this point. she basically hid the fact that she had kids from because she knew it was a deal breaker for me and thought since the sex was so good (she told me this afterwards -so it wasn’t just in my mind) that i wouldn’t want to give that up and eventually be ok with it. I did try for a couple of more dates, but in the end i couldn’t get over what i felt was a lie….even more than the kids thing.